- Having the time to meet with the people that we are coaching
- Meant that we showed the importance for the process
- Having the competence and the coaching separate
- Going into the coaching session without an agenda - not knowing what direction the conversation is going to take
- Coaching conversation can jump around
- Tangents can be good as that what is what the person being coached needs to be discussed
Learning's from Coaching Sessions
- Learning to hold your tongue and not give the answers to the coachee - and solve their problems
- Nice to allow the space and time for the voice and time for the coachee to share
- Looking for the body language to add to the discussion that is happening for the next questioning pathway
- Make sure you plan where you will sit for the conversations - side by side is best, but can be opposite but make sure there isn't a table in between
- Could try whiteboarding the GROW session with the coachee - can use this for groups too
Focus of Coaching
- Helping releasing a persons potential to maximize their own performance
- That doesn't sound like that is a focus for you at the moment - whats the focus for this term/right now?
- Mindset stuff
- Whilst that sounds great, that sounds like a safe option. What can you do next to challenge yourself a bit more?
- Take away blockages for the coachees
Great Questions to Use:
- If you were me what do you think you would do?
- Thinking of your goal, do you think this and this and this will help you achieve your goal? If this doesn't work then say 'i'm going to take my coaching hat, and put my monitoring hat on'.
- What will success look like for this goal? When you are success for this what will it look like?
- Tell me more about that?
- In the next month what would success look like for you?
- What have you learnt? What have you implemented so far? Where to now?
- So if we had no limitations, what would like to do?
- To maximize the benefits from the learning you have had what would you like to do?
- In the next two weeks what would you main focus be? Let's get the pathway to that.
- Are those options achievable?
- What advice would you give yourself?
- Where are you now in relation to your goal?